If you’re wondering how to tell if she wants the D, then you’ve come to the right place. I’ll explain all the signs that tell you when an older woman wants to have sex with you. I’ll also show how to take advantage of these signs when you see them so you won’t miss a great opportunity.
This topic is very important if you want to have many intimate relationships, so listen up!
There are several subtle and obvious signs when she wants the D
Now, you’ve probably read our tips for dating older women and they can be of some helpto get you with a woman in the first place. But knowing if a woman is simply interested in you, flirting with you, or wanting to get down and dirty can all look pretty similar. So there’s a few key things you need to know to figure out if she wants the D or not.
First of all, women love and enjoy sex at least as much as men do. Some might say even more!
Depending on how much she’s into you, she’ll show several subtle or very obvious signs that she wants you. Your job is to notice these signs and take advantage of them. Otherwise, you’ll miss a lot of great opportunities for hooking up or even a potential new relationship.
That’s why it’s very important you learn how to tell if she wants the D. Because if you miss her signs, especially if they’re obvious, she won’t respect you. She’ll either think that you’re clueless when it comes to women or that you’re too afraid to make your move.
Some women may even become offended by this. Because if a woman shows you that she wants to have sex with you and you do nothing about it, she’ll think that you don’t like her at all. If she doesn’t become offended by this, she’ll take it as you rejecting her when she was “obviously throwing herself at you.”
As harsh as this sounds, you probably won’t get a second chance.
Here are the signs you need to look out for:
1) She touches you as often as she can
Physical touch is a very powerful sign of intimate interest.
I don’t mean the type of touch that people who are friends or colleagues use. I mean touch that’s deliberate, sensual, intimate and frequent.
Take notice when an older woman makes any excuse to be near you and touch you. Because that’s very telling and it means that she’s really into you. She wouldn’t keep touching you otherwise.
This is especially true if she’s pretty much all over you every time you’re near her. Touching your arms, hugging you, putting her arms around you, etc. Something like that isn’t very subtle and you should definitely take the opportunity to go somewhere private with her. Because she obviously wants the D and she’s giving you the clear go-ahead.
Finally, if you’re still unsure if her touching signifies genuine interest in you, then you should reciprocate in kind. Start touching her in a similar fashion and notice her reaction. If it’s anything but negative and if she smiles and encourages it — you’re golden. Draw her in, kiss her and lead her somewhere more comfortable, away from prying eyes.
2) She’s adamant to see your place
When a woman’s determined to see your place, it means she wants to sleep with you.
You can even assume the same if she invites you over to her place. Particularly and especially if it’s late in the evening and she mentions “coffee” or something similar. Which is, in this case, code for “let’s fuck.”
There’s no reason to deny her this request as you’re sure to get lucky. Unless you don’t like her. In fact, it’s one of the least subtle signs and women use it frequently when they want the D right away. Because women don’t just invite random men into their homes.
It’s a less obvious version of saying “My place or yours tonight?” The only thing you have to do here is either accept or decline her invitation. Because you’re already “in” and she’s made up her mind to sleep with you.
3) How To Tell If She Wants The D? She enjoys talking about sex with you
Here’s something you may not know: Women won’t just talk about sex or similar intimate topics with any random guy. Just as they won’t invite him over to their place.
So, if she’s willing and eager to talk about sex with you, it means she trusts you and is very comfortable around you. That means she also finds you very attractive and wants to find out how kinky or sexual you are as a person.
If you don’t show any shame or cluelessness regarding this topic when you talk about it, she’ll definitely be interested in more than just talking later. Because if you both really get into it, she’ll become more and more sexually aroused and horny. More often than not, that leads directly to sex.
That’s because when women talk about sex, they’ll usually imagine all the things they’re talking about, vividly. And since you’re the only man there, she’ll project all of that stuff onto you and will eventually want the D.
All that’s left to do then is to get closer to her, make out with her and the rest will take care of itself.
4) When she’s giving you sexual compliments
When an older woman is paying you a regular compliment, then she probably likes you.
However, when an older woman is giving you a compliment with sexual undertones, then you should really pay attention. Compliments with sexual innuendos and those that mention a specific body part in a way that may even make you slightly uncomfortable are very telling.
For example, she might say that your ass looks great. Or that you have big hands or feet and insinuate with her tone of voice and body language that something else about you might be big as well.
She may say something like “When you touch me, even just a little, I get a tingling sensation down there.”
Compliments like that are a pretty reliable way of how to tell if she wants the D, to be honest. Because usually a sexual compliment isn’t given without reason. And that reason is that she’s definitely interested in having sex with you.
5) She hits you up late at night
This one’s pretty difficult to miss. But you’d be surprised by how many guys don’t realize what’s going on when an older woman texts or calls them very late in the evening.
If a woman you’re seeing contacts you after 10 pm or later and it’s not an emergency or you aren’t great friends, it means that she’s after one particular thing. Especially if it’s after midnight and it’s the weekend.
If she’s been out partying all evening and just came home, she may start feeling lonely and won’t want to go straight to sleep. She’ll then often contact a guy she’s interested in and see what he’s doing. If that guy is you, don’t miss this opportunity!
If you play your cards right at this point, you’re almost definitely going to get laid. Just don’t act all thirsty all of a sudden and chill and talk with her for a bit. Don’t ask her why she’s calling you and instead talk about her day and how she’s feeling. Then, if she’s eager to talk to you more, say that you’d rather be having this conversation in person and that you aren’t that sleepy as well.
More often than not, she’ll come over. The rest will take care of itself, then.
6) She tells you she’s in the mood
There’s not much subtlety here.
How to tell if she wants the D when you’re with her? The most reliable way is when she tells you that she’s horny or aroused.
Or she mentions in passing during your conversation that she’d like to have sex. For example if you’re talking about a movie or a song and she says something like “That’s so hot! I’d really love to be with a strong man right now.”
There’s no bigger clue as to what you have to do then. Just get closer to her and show that you can be that strong man. Don’t hesitate to make out with her, pick her up and go straight to bed. Sometimes it’s just that simple because women do love and enjoy sex a lot, if they’re with the right guy.
Now you know the best ways of how to tell if she wants the D. If you spot any of these suggestive signs, then you’re very likely to get laid if you play your cards right.
Some of them are pretty strong signs although a couple are pretty subtle. However, they all signal powerful sexual attraction towards you and you shouldn’t miss the opportunity to take things further.
More often than not, all you need to do when you spot any of these signs from an older woman is to invite her to your place. She’ll accept the vast majority of the time because that’s exactly what she’s been waiting for! And if you’re already somewhere private, just make your move and make out with her. Then escalate physically and take things further.
Just remember to be a bit tactful. Don’t just say something like “Aha! You want to have sex with me! Let’s go fuck!” or that will completely ruin the mood. When you point something like that out, women will just think that you’re clueless.
However, you should always be trying to take things up a notch when you see that she wants the D. Ramp up your physicality, touch her more intimately and escalate sexually. This will make her more and more horny because that’s exactly what she’ll want. Then just go somewhere private and have fun together.